To say that our house is not the domain of sports is to kind of understate matters. While we are often cajoled into kicking around the soccer ball with Martin's daughter in rather spastic impromptu bursts of activity, we never have sports on TV (we don't have cable), we never attend big sporting events (unless you count the 9 year old Langley girls soccer league) and it generally never comes up as a topic of conversation (unless we're fawning over Kevin Sylvester, an in-joke for all the CBC Radio 1 listeners out there). And while I can't speak entirely for Martin, I can say that I am without a doubt just generally not that interested when it comes to professional sports. And by not that interested I mean my eyes glaze over at the mere mention of. This position on sports has to do primarily with my upbringing, which was equally as light on the sporting culture, and my own war years working a sports bar during university (a job I took for money and convenience that showed me some of the very ugly sides of the sports world, hockey in particular).
But, as with most things, there is one notable exception that proves the rule. And that exception dear readers is the Fifa World Cup.
I have not always been a fan of soccer. As I already mentioned, my upbringing was almost totally sports-free, save painful years of PE class. No, my love of soccer is very closely tied to my first real love, who probably now finds it amusing to think of me trundling off on my bike early in the morning to the Italian coffee bars to watch games before work. When he and I first met, I wasn't always keen to spend my Sunday afternoons holded up in coffee bars watching Serie A games (Italian soccer league), but watch them I did, and slowly I adopted his undying support of AS Roma. As far as games go, it was certainly more my speed than say hockey which I have never been able to drum up a passion for. Soccer enjoys little in the way of fighting or violence, its fairly quick play, the on-field over dramatics are entertaining at least, and let's face it there are some darn pretty folks on the field (a statement that holds true for men and women's leagues). But in the early days, I still begrudged some of those hours spent over numerous coffees, and am sure that he would look back at my specatatorship as less than enthusiastic. All that changed when I saw my first live game in Rome, sometime around 95 or 96. The game was against city rival Lazio, we had pretty cheap seats and couldn't see the play nearly as well as the TV view I had become accustomed to, but the experience was unlike anything else I'd ever witnessed (remember, I'd never been to another professional game prior and haven't since).
I was hooked.
Suddenly, I almost understood the previous mystery of sports culture all in one fell swoop. People were wearing team scarves, jerseys and hats. They were waving banners and shouting and chanting their team on. And what I had once seen as totally inexplicable pack-mentality, started to make some kind of anthropological sense. And, for the first time, I actually found myself getting behind the success of a team. Specifically, I, like many Roma fans at the time, began to place my hopes and affections in the young and fresh faced Francesco Totti. Totti, raised in Rome, an AS Roma fan from birth it would seem, who later turned down well paid contracts for rival teams while he waited for a spot on the team of his heart. Totti, the golden boy who would pull Roma up to the top where they belonged.
Roma's ascendence didn't happen that year, and still hadn't happened a few years later when my soccer mentor and I parted ways. At the time, I took a respite from the weekly Serie A games, and now only watch them if I happen to find myself on Commercial Drive on a Sunday with time to spare (so almost never). I do check in on the standings a few times at La Republica during the season just to make sure Roma is doing ok, and that Totti continues to do well by his adoring fans. But nothing too devoted. However, when the World Cup comes along, I indulge. And so it has been that I've managed to catch at least half the time in each of Italy's three games in this year's World Cup Tournament (with time off only for work) so far. And, I'm pleased to say that my Italian skills (my vocabulary is strongest with soccer and food) have held me in good stead to even go so far as to joke with the older guys at the coffee bars at 7am. Unfortunately, due to my pesky career I had to miss Totti's brilliant goal this morning in real time, though I have seen it replayed now. But when I heard it announced on the radio as I prepared for my conference call, my heart swelled with pride that my dream-soccer-boyfriend Totti, more experienced now than he was when I first fell for him 10 years ago, had saved the day bringing Italy through to another round. And, I'll be there on Friday chearing him them on to the next.
Forza Italia.